01 December 2007

Times They Are A-Changin'

Well, dear readers (if I have any readers left), you may have noticed that I have been VERY inconsistent about blogging during the past few months. And even more unforgiveable: I've been boring.

Well, readers, I have been occupied with many things of much importance. I've been gainfully employed, of course, with my construction administration job at the Medium-sized Consulting Architecture and Engineering Company (MCAEC), and that has been fun, and I've enjoyed learning about the construction industry as part of a full-service architectural firm. I try to keep my employers anonymous, for their sake as well as my own, but I will say that this particular company is classy and professional, and they're really good at what they do. I've had some great coworkers, and none of my bosses are psycho, nor is there any probability that ethical scandals will land our company on the front pages of newspapers and threaten our stock values (for one thing, the MCAEC is not a publicly traded company anyway). With all my satisfaction with the work and the people, it's sad that I have to move on from there.

As most of you are aware, Jeff was placed for work in Phoenix, AZ. We've spent almost all of our time apart for more than two months, due to this circumstance, and it's been really difficult, but now the time has come for us to finalize a move to Phoenix. Yes, we're really almost there! In one week, we'll be all moved and starting to settle into the desert. Many thanks to my parents and Jeff's parents, who have really helped us in so many ways to pack and get the house ready. I'm just ready to be done with it now.

One thing that has kept me super-busy is yet another changing circumstance in our lives. Again, most of my readers already know, but for those who have not yet heard: Believe it or not, we are expecting a baby! I've not posted it on my blog for a few reasons. First of all, I'm paranoid. It's my first pregnancy, and I know of many people who have lost babies even several months along, and I just didn't want to be publishing it for the internet to read, and then having to write and report a miscarriage or something. And second, I really do not want to be one of those women who is obsessed with her pregnancy ("OH, MY GOSH. I'm PREGNANT! It's all about ME! And it's like NOBODY has ever been PREGNANT before.") and thinks everyone needs to hear all about it for more than nine months. Yes, I'm having a baby. And billions of women have had babies before. Anyway, Baby is due mid-February, and it has been an adventure for the past few months. It really is such a strange thing to grow another human being inside your own body. Yes, it is like having a parasite (I've had enough parasitic diseases to speak with authority on this matter). Also, I am pretty much huge by now. I might post some pictures, if I overcome my self-consciousness.

The prospect of me being a parent is amusing, of course, for those who know me and my attitude toward children in general (they should be seen and not heard, and preferably not anywhere close to me), but I expect that I'll gain some affection for my own child. If nothing else, becoming a mother will teach me a lot and lead me to become more Christ-like (I hope). All of our friends and families are so supportive and excited. It is the first grandchild on both sides, and one of the first babies in my group of friends. [Sherida, of course, has just had her little Caleb, and Amanda is going to have her baby just a little before me!]

I'm planning to post more regularly (finally!), and life will actually become easier when I'm living in Arizona with my husband, so I might have good things to write again.


Wendy said...

Ok, yes, I don't read your blog very regularly, but I'm glad I saw this post. Congratulations on your parasite...er, baby!! I'm so excited for you! And I can of course relate to being without a husband for a while, although Josh was in CO only a month before me. It's got to be rough though being pregnant and not having him around. Of course billions of women have done it before you, but that doesn't make it any easier. My advice is to milk it for all it's worth.

Willow said...

Yeah, now I can say something about my grandbaby on my blog!

Kiti said...

Wendy, I can't believe I forgot to mention that you already have TWO kids. I mean, you're right there in my blog list! I guess I was too focused on ladies that have been pregnant recently.

It's hard to be without Jeff while pregnant, but it's been okay, mostly thanks to his parents and mine, and to Sara and Elizabeth, who visited me twice. But now there's less than one week left, and then we'll be together in lovely Phoenix, AZ.

Wendy said...

Do you know what you're having? I mean, other than a baby. Gotta ask all the regular questions.

Mama Mia said...

yay! You posted about it! :o)
It was so great to see you over Thanksgiving... but I wish so much that Jeff could have come too. We missed him!

much love

Sher said...

Hooray for a new post!

Hooray for another baby!

Boo for more of my friends moving to Phoenix. At least I should have plenty of people to visit if I ever get out there.

I totally understand the paranoid feeling ... I was worried about a miscarriage up until the day he was here ... and now I worry about him not waking up.